Interacting with a homosexual?

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I have two homosexual friends and it's always hard to say certain stuff around them.So,is it right for me to still be friends with them even though I don't support their sexual preferences?? I love them both to death but,I just don't like when we start talking and the start explaining their personal life with their partner.Somethings I can handle and the some things I just feel guilty listening to it. Do any one ever feel this way ?

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Interacting with the straights? I have some heterosexual friends and sometimes they talk about their relationships and it's like... lol I can't even satire this, nevermind.

Honestly, this is a bit ridiculous. Just set normal boundaries, like you would with your straight friends. If you talk about dick with your straight friends don't be surprised if your gay friends talk about clit or whatever. If you don't talk about relationshipy stuff at all, then set that boundary. But it's a two way street, ya feel?

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Also, please stop calling it sexual preference when you mean orientation.

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Wait what? A homosexual? You mean a human being.....

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They're human beings no different than you, and you should treat them like that or leave them alone.

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Idk why they'd want to be friends with someone who doesn't want to hear about their relationships, who they love, etc. isn't that what friends are for?

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If I was your homosexual friend I wouldn't want to be your friend anyway. Their living their lives the way they were made, and if you can't handle it then maybe you should rethink yourself. Maybe you feel guilty because the things they are saying make you curious... Just saying

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I'm a lesbian, and hate hearing about straight people's personal lives. Same thing. If someone doesn't wanna hear me talk about it I won't, but they need to give me the same respect.

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Do they know how you feel? If I were them I wouldn't be interested in pursuing a friendship with you

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From my point of view which is the same as your friends, they're just living their lives and trying to be who they are. If what they're doing isn't hurting you and it's making them happy then what does it matter who they lay down with at night?

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Honesty, I think they need a friend that can support them completely for who they are. 
Maybe try teaching you homophobic self something and try respecting your friends for their identity.

Interacting with a homosexual?

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