Should i be worried?

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Husband and i have always had eachothers phone passwords since months after we started dating. Well this morning i tried the password and it didnt work. He changed it at some point. Should i be worried?  Why didnt he tell me his new one? idk what to think right now. To be honest i am worried. 😞

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Try to think positive. Maybe he is talking to a friend or family member of yours about a big surprise he is going to give you!

But if you want to know what's up but he gives you crap about asking. Then do it sneaky. When you go somewhere or are in bed say "oh I need to look something up can I use your phone I don't have mine" then you will know by his reaction if you should be worried or not

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I wouldnt want my other half to read private conversations with my friends or sisters nor have I the desire to snoop through his phone. There needs to be a certain amount of personal space and privacy in a relationship so if he doesn't want to see yours stop snooping through his phone. That way you don't get this sucky paranoia feeling when he changes his password.

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Just be honest and ask him why he changed the password. No need to be a detective just straight up ask him. Me and my boyfriend have each other's password. Sometimes i change it. I'll forget to tell him and he will ask what it is. No big deal or fuss about it. If he is hiding something then idk what to tell you.

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Why don't you just ask him about it?

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What's the point of having his password? If he wants to hide something he can easily delete the text or emails after he gets them and u wouldn't know so it seems pointless u have his password to begin with

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Has he given you any reason to not trust him before? My SO dosen't lock his phone, he just keeps it on him at all times. Previously we had some issues. But we worked past them. Sometimes i get a little insecure and ask to see his phone, he gives it to me. And that is all i need. I dont go through it, just need him to be willing to hand it over. I have only asked for it twice over the past 2 years.  I had a password on my phone, only because my kids were playing on it. I told himthe password, i changed it a few times because i didn't like entering something long, or it was too tricky when i was tired. Lol. And never told him. We just didnt have much of a reason to be suspicious.

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We don't have passwords on our phones because we have nothing to hide. That being said, we also don't have kids yet that are trying to play with our phones.

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He might have just changed it for no reason. My husband does that sometimes... I don't have his password out of distrust, but because all the time (driving or otherwise) he often asks me to text so and so or check his messages for if so and so texted. I would just ask if you guys use each other's phones regularly. Just like, hey... I tried to do something on your phone and it was locked, what's your new password

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My boyfriend did that recently but I trust him and he trusts me so i don't care what's on his phone, if he wanted to cheat he has plenty of opportunities but I also have plenty of opportunities to catch him. If you can't trust him because of his phone there is a bigger issue. Talk to him, maybe he just changed it and forgot to tell you or like someone else said maybe it's cause he has a surprise for you.

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Don't mention anything to him. Ask to use his phone in a situation where you don't have yours. Do some fast digging - STAT!!

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