Can I have anything else against me? Oh yes, I had preclamsia in my 1st pregnancy and my baby was born premature. I think I should stop, but my heart aches at the though of my daughter growing up by herself. At the same time, I know I'm risking her growing up without a mother. I should feel blessed for having her, and stop. I should take that big 'ol BFN I got this morning as a sign that I should stop.