Are anyone else's friend a little M.I.A?

I'm not sure if in being overly sensitive, but I feel like I had to stalk and track down my friends to tell them I'm pregnant (a lot of voicemails I left and unreturned calls) and now that they know it's like crickets. Perhaps they don't realize how quickly it's progressing (I'm almost 5 months), but I feel like my close friends are really missing out on sharing this experience with me. I live in New York and everyone's so busy and going on vacation that I think in their minds they think they just spoke with me, but in most cases it's been weeks. Not to mention we're moving in 3 months to be closer to family, so I don't think it's dawned on folks that we'll be gone. I'm starting the process of planning my baby shower (of course no one's offered to help). And I just feel so in need of my friends and community and it's a bit lonely at the moment. Any one else relate?