Should I go for it?

Question

I just recently met an older man (I'm 22 and he's in his 40s). This isn't like me at all because I normally wouldn't consider seeing someone that much older, but I'm really into this guy. I can't stop thinking about him and want to see him all the time. I wasn't really into him until I got to know him a little more and he was super friendly with me (holding my hand, being a gentleman, etc.) I don't know if I should go for it or attempt to and look stupid if he really isn't into me. Any ideas on how to see if he's into me without flat out asking?

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You shouldn't. Based on the fact that you're still playing some childish "he loves me, he loves me not" high school game.besides that. He's probably like the same age as your parents! I'm 22 as well and my dad is in his late 40s. No thanks

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I'm 22 and my fiance is 39. I've never met a more amazing man. A lot of people were concerned that he's so close in age with my parents (they're both turning 44 this year) but honestly, after a few months I don't think anyone noticed anymore. And we haven't cared about the age gap ever. So, it works for us. If you're unsure, take your time. There's nothing wrong with making sure this is truly what you want.

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I'm 22 and my hubby will be 39 in December. Thats right, HUBBY. I've been with him for 4 years. And married him because he was the perfect man for me regardless of his age. If you're interested in him, you should pursue him as you would any other man. I did and I hit the jackpot! 😁

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We didn't have that much of a gap (me and my hubby ,  but we are 8 years apart. It really doesn't matter. In fact if they are a good man , they have learned so much from life already and make great husbands!  And attraction has never been a problem for me. He's super sexy!

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Just make sure he's not married or committed to someone else.If he's not and you both like each other or love then give it a chance..I'm 25 and my Husband is 39. I'm pregnant with our first.

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Have fun! You're only young once 😊

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I wouldn't push for it. I'm 18 and my man is 33. All I did when we would hang out was sit back and let things flow however they were going to. There's no need to rush it :)

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Let time tell if he's into you or not. You don't want to ask the question and it ends up pushing him away. I'm 22 and my SO is 31. My mom just turned 44 yesterday so ignore people if they try and tell you to find someone closer to your age. Only you and him know how you feel about the other.

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