FTM scheduled c section in 2 weeks

I know they are all little things and they measure up to nothing compared to normal delivery but I was just wondering how some stuff feels like. Like do you feel the catheter go in or do they wait until you are numb, same with taking it out, does it hurt. I've heard the epidural is like a bee sting? And if it's planned and I fasted for it, do they still give you enema? And last question is how long did it take everyone to be able to hold their baby.