TMI after d&c

Sorry this is TMI, please I don't want anyone judging and hating on this question.  
So I had a d&c a week and a half ago after loosing my baby at 13 weeks. My partner and I are extremely sexually frustrated. Now we are waiting the two weeks to have sex because we want to make it special but I'm really struggling with just giving him oral. We almost got to the point of doing anal last night and we both really want to do it. Is it okay to do anal before the two weeks? We can't hold off any longer!