No bond with unborn baby?

Has everyone's partners get a reaction from Bub? or did you experience the opposite? 
I keep reading and hearing about pregnancy stories of Daddy's bonding with their unborn babies. Everyone tells me that whenever their partner came home from work or whenever their partner tried bonding with baby the baby would react/kick/be active. My partner has tried everyday to somehow bond with Bub but seems to get the opposite reaction. Bub could be moving or kicking when dads not around but as soon as I tell my partner to feel my belly the baby stops? and won't continue moving or kicking until my partner goes away. it's the same when he tries talking to baby, he gets nothing! but every other family member gets a reaction from Bub. 
My partner is getting very upset in a way, thinking he will not have a strong bond with the baby and is starting to not be as excited...