How do I maturely handle this ?

Question

Do you ever just really feel like your relationship is struggling but Your boyfriend thinks everything is fine and dandy and he is just oblivious to everything ?

We aren't exactly fighting and maybe I am emotional sometimes but he just is only intimate when he wants to be and he acts upset/annoyed when I want to have sex or want to be physically close to him.

I don't care as much about the intimacy issues as much as just him distancing himself from me but I just don't know what to do. I wouldn't peg myself as clingy but sometimes I just want a kiss or want to hold hands !

I just feel my man is distancing himself from me and I don't really know why . It's almost as if he's hiding something , and I know he wouldn't even think of cheating , but what else  could this be ? And how do I talk about it with him without seeming suspicious of him or dramatic and needy ?

Answer

This is almost the exact conversation a friend of mine had with me today. She said her boyfriend is not affectionate, only wants to be intimate when HE wants and acts put out when she tries to initiate even kissing or hugging. She said he pays more attention to his video games than he does to her.

I dont know what to say to you, and I am sorry about that, I just want you to know that you are not alone, and that others have this problem as well.
I told her to talk to him, not in any way that would seem accusatory so he doesnt get defensive. .. but just tell him how you are feeling. 
Good Luck

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Or the relationship could just be at the point where there's nowhere else to go. There are guys out there that are as affectionate as you need them to be because they actually want to. Maybe just time to move on.

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Look up intimacy anorexia. That may not be it but i dont really know enough to be able to really tell.

How do I maturely handle this ?

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