It seems that once a break-up has occurred, relationships don't stand much of a chance, even if you guys get back together. If you broke up once, there must have been a reason, and it doesn't look like that issue has been resolved. If you want it to work, you need to have a real heart-to-heart with him. Find out why he acts this way and tell him how to make you feel more loved (some guys need it spelled out for them). If he's not willing to put in the work, I suggest ending it for good. (I'm sorry, I'm sure that's not the answer you're looking for)

went though a rough patch like that last year. we stopped texting constantly and we couldn't see each other as much due to school and work. we had many many talks about what was going wrong/ how I felt about certain things that her did and shared our POV about it. we were just really good at communicating our issues and eventually we got though it and now I can happily say we are more In love than ever!❤️ so I wish the best of luck to you!