My husband did nine years in prison during that time I waited for him.Even got married in prison. He promised all these thing how he would babysit the kids,help with the house,that we would try to have a baby .... but in the last 9 months he's been home he doesn't do nothing. He lays in bed all day long. The kids are too hard for him to watch,cleaning is a woman's job,and as far as the baby well because I was taking ovulation tests now I'm forcing it even though we only had sex once this month... what can I do cause I just feel like he need to grow up and he's in his 30s...