Anyone else late??? 😐

Ellie β€’ 35. TTC 2 years.
I am four days late for AF. Β I haven't tested because whenever I'm late she arrives and I can't stand to see more negatives!!!
I have spotted for three days. It is usual for me to spot, but it is not usual for my breasts to bother me this much.Β 
Tired of my body playing mind games 😑😑😑. Anyone else in this situation?