Misscarriage at 6 weeks age 40 feeling devastated and sad

Misscarriage at 6 weeks felling very sad and devastated.. My kids took it very hard but we r being brave.. My little bean didn't grow it wasn't in the uterus. It was in the Fallopian tube I was very heart broken when the er dr told me. did ultrasound and didn't fine anything. I was so heart broken. Baby didn't develop.. Now just taking it easy for my kids trying to be brave.. Has anyone else had a similar situation like mines. Or is it because older women is more complicated and harder.