Weight gain at 23 weeks?

Lluvia
I haven't gained any weight since I got pregnant... but my belly looks big. Everyone keeps telling me I look so big and they act shocked and awkward when I tell them in 23 weeks. Anyone else in the same boat? It's so tiring to keep being judged by other people constantly. My doc. Said it's fine about my weight gain if it's not due to morning sickness and if eating healthy. I usually don't mention to people anytjing about my weight gain when they tell me I look big since then I don't want them to go from "oh you're eating too mich, you're huge!" To " are you starving yourself and your baby!?" .. I just don't even want to hear it. I'm getting the most annoying looks and stares from an ex friend that still hangs out with our group of friends who gained 85 lbs during her own pregnancy so I'm just so irritated. Sadly I've had to spend the whole weekend around this and I'm so ready to leave. Aah just needed to vent.