No intimacy

Hello all, I'm posting this anonymously because it's an embarrassing subject for me. Since me and my SO got together I've had a higher sex drive than him. But recently since I got pregnant and had my baby our sex life has gone to complete shit. I mean, I can think back to when we first got together and I remember him not letting me go down on him. He would laugh and I used to think what is wrong with this guy?? Who doesn't like bjs? Fast forward a few years and now there's zero intimacy. Every time I try to initiate something, I get turned down with excuses. I have gained weight since I had my baby but not enough for him to be turned off by me and I'm trying to lose more weight. I really have no idea what to do. I'm sure he's not cheating on me, so that's not an option. Like I said, we've had this problem since we first met its just gotten worse since the baby came. I need advice. 😖😖
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Ma

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Maybe he's gay secretly or something 

Li

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Some guys just gave a lower sex drive.. Maybe he's self conscious about himself and you don't know. I hope things work out for you two

Li

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You really need to talk to him about it... If he cares about you and your feelings he will listen and try to work on things. I have the same problem just no baby and we still have sex just not as often as I'd like. I'm coming to the conclusion that all the caffeine he consumes is lowering his sex drive because that does happen. This is a hard thing to give advice on because there's a lot of reasons as to why this is going on. Talk to him.. Communication is key.