On rape- my rapist's girlfriend posted that she is a rape survivor and so glad she has a respectful partner
I'm livid. She posted that it's never ok to rape. But her own boyfriend raped me mere weeks before they started dating.
I didn't know how to react. I thought maybe becoming closer to him would make it ok. He was a terrible person. He told people I was pregnant so "everybody thinks we had sex, so why not?"
He forced me into a blow job when I said no. He shoved his fingers into me and it hurt. Over 4 years later, I cry during gynological exams because that's how it felt. I asked him to stop. He said no and got mad.
When his girlfriend was gone he wanted me to have sex with him. He threatened to kill himself if I didn't.
When I started realizing what he did and stopped talking, he saw I got a boyfriend and called me a whore since my boyfriend was 5 years older. He also "realized I wasn't 18" when he raped me. He knew how old I was. He was at my birthday parties.
It breaks my heart to see this girl is stuck with this manupulative asshole. I know he's interested in cheating and I know he's a rapist. And she thinks he's so respectful. If only she knew.
Edit- I'm really disappointed that there are people trying to reclassify my experience. By the FBI's definition, I was raped twice because he forced oral penetration and he shoved his fingers up me.
I want to clarify that I'm not friends with the girlfriend on Facebook. Curiosity got the best of me when I was trying to calm myself down and checked his page to make sure he wasn't talking about me.
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