How early is too early? (Sex)

Question

I am 19, and am in my first relationship (ever). I'm curious: how long did it take for you to start fingering, giving handjobs and blowjobs, and have sex (during your first relationship, and later relationships)?

Answer

Ahh I think it was the third date, tbh. I was 17 and curious as hell. Also sorta impatient. (I'm 18 now; not a whole lot has changed).

Too early is when you're not ready. When you're second guessing. When you're uncomfortable saying out loud what you want. When you can't set boundaries with your SO. That's when it's too early.

It's not a numerical date thing, 
it's a feeling thing.

Answer

When you are the most comfortable to do it! Dont rush anything

Answer

Hand and mouth stuff in the first few weeks- it honestly depends on how comfortable you are with your SO. Go out of your comfort level a little just to learn and try new things, but know where your boundaries are and don't be afraid to say no!

Answer

Few weeks in did hand jobs and fingering, by two months oral and once the one year mark came we lost our virginities to each other but I wish I waited longer cause I wasn't ready. Make sure you think about the emotional impact not just physical

How early is too early? (Sex)

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