How to not get grossed out during a BJ?

Question

My SO isn't circumcised. He shaves and showers very well before sex, but I can't ever bring myself to give him a BJ. I just find his penis unattractive bc he's uncircumcised. I feel like maybe he has dirt or germs under the foreskin that he didn't clean right. I wish I could give him one but j just feel so grossed out. Anything I can do to fix this? Anyone feel the same way about their so?

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Uncircumcised penises are no less hygienic or clean than circumcised penises. If he has good hygiene, his penis is clean, don't worry. You should love and accept him the way he is. However I can understand blowjobs grossing you out and that's fine. You don't owe him blowjobs for any reason so don't feel obligated to give them if you don't want to

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Try showering with him & washing his penis yourself that way you know its clean & then just have at it ;)

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I understand where you are coming from. I can stand the way they look either. It grosses me out and its a 100% deal breaker for me!

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In the UK it's not common practice to circumcise, I've never seen a circumcised penis. If he is not looking after himself hygiene wise you'll probably know by having sex with him. Love your man for what he is and go for it!

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In the UK it's not common to get circumcised and is usually for medical or religious reasons here,

So I personally have never seen a circumcised one.

I don't particularly like giving my SO blow jobs - but he loves it, so I just go for it! It's your choice at the end of he day :)

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If you're comfortable enough or as very last resort, ask if he would be open to circumcision. They do if for adults, not just newborns. You would have to research it if you're serious to get the details and recovery.

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I honestly cant do blow jobs. I do it every once in a while but it always makes my throat sore after doing it so i told him lol i cant. Just have that open communication. It will be okay.

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You could try it in the shower maybe? Or if you two are close enough and pretty serious, you could suggest circumcision to him? I know my husband would do it if I asked him, and if he didn't already have it done as a baby lol.

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Try doing it in the shower

How to not get grossed out during a BJ?

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