How do you spice things up when your trying to make a baby? Yesterday we had sex in the shower and he used the shower head on me so I'd come. I need more ideas. We have toys but those would require lube because I can't stay wet that way. I let him use the camera Saturday. I'm cycle day 14 and he's only finished inside me 4 times in this past week. I've been cramping off and on and having pain in my vagina but that's normal with ovulation. I've also been light headed/dizzy and have tender boobs. And can't feel my cervix today, which is unusual because it normally sits low. My next period isn't til Sept. 14th