No cramping No bleeding but no heart beat :(

Stephanie
I am measuring 8 weeks 2 days but I had an ultrasound today and they said the fetus has no heart beat .... I have no cramps no bleeding ... They said the baby is deceased. Should I have a second opinion ??? They told me I can either wait until I miscarry at home or have a Procedure at hospital!! Help???? I'm so empty and numb !