Husbands Aunt

She's like my husbands second mom, and she lives an entire state away so I don't have to see her much. But when she comes to town, she is just irritating. I helped my MIL set up for my SILs wedding reception all morning, from about 4 am-11 am. When we got back to my mother in laws house, the aunt got mad because I wasn't helping prepare food. (The kitchen isn't my strong point anyway) and called me out in front of the whole family, most of which i was meeting for the first

 time. She used my makeup without my permission- gross. And when my husband and I were opening gifts after our wedding, she kept trying to "hold the money" and asked us to say aloud how much we got. Very tacky. 

Anyway... 

Now that I'm pregnant she's a state away trying to run the show. She gets mad if I post something like a pic on FB without telling her about it... I'm sorry that I didn't Ent you an ultrasound pic before I put it on FB, but seriously there's so many people o wanted to show, that's why I just posted there. She's telling me I need to do a ninja turtle theme nursery if it's a boy because that's what my husband loves growing up. She's seriously buying ninja turtle stuff expecting me to use it. Uh no. 

I can't stand this woman. She always has these small remarks and I just don't know what to do or say. My husband loves his aunt dearly, and I hate to say i can't stand her. She lives far away so it's not like I see her a lot but I feel like she's more present in my life than I am!