When should a women change her plans for a man ?

I am in a long distance relationship . Engagement plans are two years off . I am in the process of relocating where he is because he is military as soon as I find a job in my career field. There are better places that I could go with higher salaries for my career field . On top of this , we will not be living together until we are engaged because he is in a lease now and when the lease is up, he wants to get his own place to get the experience of living alone . Additional information : been together for years . Both mid twenties and very much in love . Should I move for love or move to something better in my field ?