"mother in law" advice?

I'm already 23 weeks, due in January. My boyfriend barely told his mom that I'm pregnant, maybe 2-3 weeks ago. Since then I've been trying to get her to be involved in things, it's hard because she mainly speaks Spanish and I don't know spanish so I rely on my boyfriend to get things by to her. I tried to give her my number and she won't take it because she only wants to talk to my parents, she wants nothing to do with me yet asks my boyfriend to take pictures of me so she can see my stomach. idk what to do.