When do you have your first prenatal visit scheduled?

I'm due May 20th, currently 4w4d and I just scheduled my first app This morning, they won't see me until Nov 3rd, and that's not even to see a dr just the nurse, making me almost 12 weeks pregnant. So basically I won't have any prenatal care until my second trimester. Does this seem right? When do you have your first visit? I can hardly take it I just want to get in to the doctor to make sure everything's okay! :/