Lupus

My rheumatologist hasn't been able to see me because of problems with my insurance. In the beginning of my pregnancy I felt fine, but now at 15 weeks I'm in so much pain. My hands are so swollen and my bones just hurt so much! I'm so scared it'll hurt the baby. I saw her last week and my little girl looked fine, being super active. But I'm so scared lupus will affect her in any way. Any moms with lupus going through pain? I just wish I knew more women in this situation 😔