I was to tight for sex. What do I do??

Question

Yesterday me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time (I was a virgjn) he couldn't get it all the way in because I was to tight then I started bleeding so we stopped.  How do I make it to where I'm looser and he can actually fit inside me? Please any comments will help thanks.

Answer

Lube, Lube, also lube.  And foreplay.   I promise you aren't too tight, but probably a bit nervous and tensing up.

Answer

Most people go through this, over time it will get looser

Answer

Take a hot bath (maybe rogether), have him give you a back massage, make out with you, play with your hair, trail fingers down your body where tou're sensitive, play with your breasts, kiss you from neck to breasts to between your legs, finger you, go down on you, and wait until you're begging to have him do more to you. You know, stuff like that. :D

Also, bleeding the first, second, or whatever time is normal. I lost my virginity when I was 17, and every now and then, a guy I'm with will rip more of my hymen, that I thought was gone, so um yeah. I'm 26 now. :3

Answer

I said something to my doctor about this bc I was in the same situation. She just told me that the first few times are pretty painful and then I would loosen up. 5 years later(and 3 doctors later), my husband and I are just now able to have pain free sex. My opinion is to give it time, lots of lube, and relax. If after a month you are still experiencing pain, I would go to your doctor.

I was to tight for sex. What do I do??

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products