Arguments?

Question

Let me start this off by saying me and my So have known one another for a very long time. 
We were extremely close friends and have been on and off as a couple for a while once before (timing just wasn't right) 
We have now been on and have stayed on for a while now, and have decided we would try for a baby! 
But this month, i have moved in with him, since then it has been nothing but tit for tat arguing (over silly things) 
For example, i got made at him for not allowing me to cook dinner, tonight he has gotten angry at me for not deciding a movie... Im not to sure whats wrong or why we seem to be fighting so regularly, has anyone else gone through this stage with their partner? How can i solve this

Answer

With an ex yes, with my husband we might start to argue,  but both of us quickly back down bc we understand how unimportant it is. OK so I really wanted to cook dinner, but it's not worth arguing over,  so I might let him know I wanted to,  but if he doesn't back down, I will, I'll survive if I don't cook dinner. And vice versa, a huge part of a relationship is give and take and compromise. If you can't do that,  it won't work.

I wouldn't try for a baby until you straighten this out. #1 the stress isn't healthy #2 that's not a good environmenvironent for a baby #3 a baby won't fix it, if anything make it worse

Answer

Some of it may just be adjustment to getting to know each other, but a lot of times arguments like that have underlying issues. Have you asked him? Something like "hey, I notice we have been bickering a lot, is there anything you want to talk about?" Will open the door. When you get mad at him for little things, do you ask yourself why?

Answer

It might mean that you two just aren't compatible enough to live together. Give it some time, and see if you can both adjust. And most importantly, talk about it! If you guys don't address it, it could just get worse and worse until it blows up and ruins your relationship. Try to find a middle ground. Good luck!

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