If I knew it was so hard to get pregnant I would of never stayed so cautious! Honestly I had in my head if we didn't use protection it would happen the first try! We had been trying for almost a year now and nothing! I finally gave up the last couple months and took a break from figuing out when I ovulate to these apps. I had a dream a couple weeks ago and said something about me and a baby 9-15 and the next morning I started. I thought maby it would be my month and I would find out the date this month or maby it's a time. A few weeks later we found out my sister in law is pregnant! Then I had a dream a few days ago about sun Nov 12 which isn't till 2017 with a pregnant digital test! My boyfriend never ever has dreams and he dreamed that we had a baby boy and it seemed so real he said! I haven't even been thinking about getting pregnant till I had these dreams and now I'm going crazy. I've been slightly cramping for a week now and feel like I'm gonna start but I've never cramped this long and have had slight sore breasts and I'm supposed to start today but haven't yet! I've taken 2 tests about 5 days ago and they were negative!!!!! I feel I've taken too many bfn and will never see a bfp:( I'm not sure if I wanna try harder or just let it happen on its own!