My first

Today is the week and month I gave birth to my first.. but now I'm pregnant with my second and she's making no attempt to come early or even on time:(. I'm 36w 4days and not dilating or nothin. My cervix is soft but it's been like that over a month now. I want some kind of a sign my baby girl wants to come out and see me in the next 3 weeks. COME ON MELANIE BREANNE!