what should i do if losse

i barely feel anythijg with vibrator or my man after givijg birth i even bought a v tightning gel but i just wish i cpuld get vainal restructuon thats the only way it will be as before giving birth in so despret he says it doesnt matter he say its sill the same to him but not to me i never knew that it would change after giving birth 3 months ago frelijg depressed mad feeling regret and cry alot even my legs are loose i need exersize for that.