Would you forgive?

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No. He deserves to die.

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I was molested at 13 and raped at 17 by two different people. It has been hard but I forgave the guy who molested me and am currently working on forgiving the guy who raped me. 
I don't think they deserve it but I know I need to forgive them in order to move on and make myself realize it wasn't my fault either of those things happened to me.

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Not for him, but for me. It hit me one day that all the anger and rage and pain I was carrying around, while I was directing it all at him in my thoughts, didn't actually affect him. In fact he had no idea how much anger I was throwing his way each day. And he was living his life happy and oblivious. I wasn't hurting him, I wasn't getting him back. All I was doing was hurting myself and living in a whirlwind of hate and depression and the only way out was to forgive. Forgiving him let me forgive myself.

Maybe not the route for everyone, but it was the route for me.

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I have been able to forgive one but am finding it troubling to forgive the other.

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I was raped from ages 9-14 by my step father and my sister was raped by him from age 5-9 we both don't forgive him for all the pain he caused. When I was 14 on my birthday my ex boyfriend got me drunk and raped me and my step dad did it the next day when I went home. I have a son out of it. I wouldn't forgive them personally because they hurt you. For what they did they could rot in hell

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I was molested by my cousin at age 10 and never forgave him nobody knows about it and then I was raped at age 16 I felt so bad after reporting him because I fell in love with him. All i wanted to do was apologize to him.

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