HELP!!

So me & my bf have had sex plenty of times but it never seems to feel good for me. We've done different positions and nothing, the condom tends to hurt me after a while because all the lube comes off so we've tried it without & its like theres a bit of feeling but really nothing. We try and take it slow, i get wet and he gets hard so when i think im wet enough and we start having sex it feels like nothing. Its happened every time we've had sex. Ive talked to my friends & they say try and get wetter by watching porn with him or let him eat you out but that doesnt work. I question if something is wrong with me, can someone please help me..