Miscarriage?!...

Friday I started spotting which turned into mild bleeding(brown). Yesterday no bleeding but a bit crampy, was really hoping it was ligament pains. Today.. Woke up with both the cramping(bearable) and now light spotting (red) I called the DR on call and she was less then helpful. Pretty much told me politely to suck it up. Your most likely losing your pregnancy and it happens. Trying to stay optimistic but I'm losing my mind.