Everything worked out for once!

Ryan • I`m 25. Single mom of two toddlers born 13 months apart and they are my absolute world! Jaxon Abel and Calliope Elizabeth. And of course, my angel baby Violet💕 also obsessed with make up! So if you ever need tips and tricks and advice hmu!!!
So this post is super duper long and ramblely but I'm really happy and wanted to shout it to the world!!)So since January (after my dads suicide) I've been fighting for insurance. Found out late January I was pregnant and got on Medicare, no insurance companies wanted to give me insurance seen I was on pregnancy Medicare. Miscarried in April and by then enrollment was over so I had to get a temporary insurance. Got pregnant again in June and was going to my beloved obgyn, I've been going since I was 16 (when I was doing yearly exams) well after my 8 week ultrasound I got a call telling me my temp insurance wouldn't cover prenatal care. Which sucked. So I decided to go back to the health department reluctantly. Well I got my files sent to them and kept calling them for WEEKS asking if they got it and they kept saying no. Well finally when I was like 14 weeks pregnant I called and they finally told me they wouldn't take me because I was too high risk. Which is stupid cause I only had one miscarriage. Which is common and isn't considered high risk til you've had 2-3. And I was in the second trimester with everything being healthy. I had a friend tell me she had 3 miscarriages back to back and was still seen there. After awhile they said I could come in Tuesday (tomorrow) for an assessment to see if I'm actually pregnant and if there's a chance they will take me. A couple days ago I decided against it because clearly they just didn't want to take me and I felt like if they reluctantly did they wouldn't treat me good and I didn't want that. So I have been racing the clock to find a obgyn that I could afford with no insurance. The week prior I went to an elective ultrasound to find out the gender and found out my baby is, without even the slightest doubt, a boy! Well today I felt hopeless and like I was drowning. The cheapest place I could find was still so pricey and I just felt loss. Well I decided out of the blow to google pregnancy Medicare nc (my state) just to see if maybe I could apply online. Well the first page had a link for pregnancy insurance free quote. I figured I had nothing to lose and filled out the short questionare. Within 5 minutes a lady called me to give me a quote. Turns out we are eligible for subsidy and both my husband and I (he has been uninsured too which has caused stress) will now be fully covered starting November. It is the cheapest insurance we ever had. It's with blue cross and blue shield which is one of the best! And copays are super cheap and it's just perfect for us and the pregnancy. The woman joked with me and told me I picked the perfect time because after the 15th, I wouldn't be able to get insurance til January. So I called my husband before saying yes and told him about it. As soon as I said the monthly price and our copays he told me to hang up and call them back ASAP and made sure I had the right info for his bank. After it was officially done, I sat on my bed and sobbed for the first time in happiness. I feel like a 10000 pound weight has been lifted off our shoulders and am just so relieved. I can now finally enjoy my pregnancy! I'll be able to go back to my favorite obgyn!! I'm gonna go ahead and call them to see if I can go ahead and set up an appointment for November 1st. And I'll be 20 weeks at that point! My husband and I are both atheists (no offense to any other religion! I think they all are lovely!) but I feel like I was so lucky and everything worked out just right. My hubby is so proud of me for working magic lol. I'm just so so happy. My best friend who's a mom told me to still get Medicare for L&D because even with insurance that is pricey. I'm just so happy guys I can't even describe it! Thank you to all you lovely people who have given me advice over this, my pregnancy and everything in between. The support and love in this group of women is so amazing and I never thought I'd find a community I'd be so comfortable in! I love you all!
(TL;DR: after almost a year after my dads suicide, I finally got insurance for hubby and I that also covers pregnancy and I'm so happy. And love all you ladies with all your support and love!)