Hello ladies so i am desperate for help..... our wedding count is at 200+ and the max capacity is 180... i am inviting only first cousins aunts and uncles and i just so happen to be the oldest first cousin. I have baby sat my cousins, been together every holiday and couldnt have my wedding without them there. Well my fiance has 11 aunts and uncles and he is the youngest out of everyone!!!! He has over 40 kids he is inviting..can u say hell no! He sees these cousins maybe once a year and he doesnt even know there names...i know they are still his family but he is saying we should do an adult only wedding to resolve this issue. My kid count is at 7 being my first cousins and sisters only. His are second cousins. Am i selfish ladies? What should i do. I am not going to not have 7 kids there because i see them so much and like i said they mean the world to me. How do we resolve this.