No bump yet?

Anyone else just kinda feeling fat instead of pregnant at this point? I'll be 17 weeks on Tuesday and I definitely have a pudge going on, but it's surely not a noticeable bump. Like if people didn't know I was pregnant they would just think I was getting fat. I know every pregnant woman is different but I guess I'm seeing everyone else's bump and I'm like geez, I'm farther than them and I don't look like that. I kinda feel like I've stopped growing but at the same time my stomach muscles do feel tight like they're stretching. I go to the doctor Thursday to find out the sex so I'm sure I'll feel better once I see my little peanut has grown some more. It's such a struggle once you've already had one miscarriage before to be positive throughout the pregnancy 😞