Dilemma

I just found out yesterday that my husband really wants to know the sex of our baby, when we get to that stage. I have always wanted the surprise.

I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to disappoint him. He feels anxious and wants to know and I want the surprise. There's not really a middle ground for us here.

The only thing we could do is let him find out what we're having and make him keep it a secret but I have a feeling that it won't be a very well kept secret.

Any suggestions?