Going back to the whole.. Who gets served first at the table? Your husband or kids? Well lemme add in if there was no kids and it was just you and him. My boyfriend was cooking for me and he ended up serving me first. I felt bad because I thought I should be the one cooking and serving him food and not the other way around. He always does that. Do you guys think he would end up getting tired of it and let me know I should be doing what he has been doing?