Rant!

I'm not being rude when I say this but if you take it that way I truly apologize. But I know many of us make posts on here asking questions, what bothers me is some responses will be "Well why don't you ask him?" I feel like the reason behind asking on here is because some people need another way of asking or saying things, we all know males are sensitive but don't let them tell it😒. So some things may come out as pushy, rude or something. 
I honestly ask questions or make posts just so I can feel more comfortable when it comes down to ask certain things, just to put my mind at ease. It's better to ask others or people you don't know for opinions because they don't know you to judge you. Many experience what you experience(d), I thought this app was here for women or others helping one another. 
Now I'm not saying asking "Why . . ." Is bad thing, but if I were to make a post explaining how my SO is and how he reacts and ask how can I deal with it or how do I approach it I wouldn't expect to be just told "Go ask him not us" or "Why don't you ask him" because I'm thinking like well because I obviously don't know how so I'm asking for your opinions. 
But don't mind me, I'm just venting . . .