Help! How to get your SO to expand your horizons in the bedroom?

Question

My husband and I have only done a handful of positions together. I want to try different ones but I'm too nervous to ask because I don't want to be turned down. I want him to be more adventurous in bed and sexually. Such as different locals etc. every time I suggest something he laughs and says "oh we can do that here" any advice?

Answer

Way back when my hubby and I first started dating we were the same way. We stuck with what was comfortable. Over time I learned to just take charge and he goes with it. And he'll do the same with me. Clearly if there's ever anything either one of us are uncomfortable with we respect that boundary. But I think he likes it when I'm assertive and kind of take control. And I can certainly say that I enjoy it when he does it as well. Or you can discuss it. But I find that to be a buzzkill. Just switch it up in the heat of the moment!

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I have felt the same way with mine! I just talk to him about it. Ask if we can try specific positions. He's never turned me down or not wanted to give it a try. I'm sure yours will be equally as willing. They usually want us to be enjoying your sex life as much as they do.

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Are you into bondage? Obviously nothing hardcover if you haven't ever tried it, but you don't even have to buy anything for it. Just get his ties and tell him to tie you up and have his way with you or vise versa. It's good to express yourself and keep things interesting.

Help! How to get your SO to expand your horizons in the bedroom?

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