Do you consider this abusive?
So my husband got angry at me because I wouldn't have sex when he got home from work. I am 11 weeks pregnant and besides the terrible all day morning sickness, I have been extremely exhausted. My mother, understanding how tired I am, came over and helped me vacuum the house and keep an eye on my three year old. We have a large house and I used all my energy cleaning because I haven't had the energy to clean for a while.
So I'm going to bed that night and I know my husband is angry. He comes into the bedroom angry that I filled up the trash and didn't take it out and flings the trash bag into the room. His empty beer bottles crash into the concrete floor and make a huge racket and shouts here's your F-ing trash. All of this in front of the three year old.
He sleeps on the couch and when he wakes up the next morning he flings the old coffee and grounds from the pot onto the floor. Just flat out dumps it. Again, in front of the kid. Then proceeds to the bedroom where he kicks the trash bag around till it busts open getting all over the place. He refused to clean it up and left it for 4 days till I moved my son and I to the guest room.
He never cleaned up the coffee and actually shuffled his feet everytime he walked through it to make sure it tracked farther. The reason I switched rooms was because the trash smelled so bad of rotting food my pregnant nose couldn't take it. I realize I could have just cleaned it up but I wasn't bigger than that. Anyways, do you think this is abusive behavior?
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