When a guy hurts you should you be

Question

Me and this guy have been talking for awhile and he tells me yesterday that we should be just friends. Should I be bitchy and put my wall up or should I let him know how I really feel, upset, hurt, etc... I really care about him/:

Answer

Neither. Leave him alone and don't say another word about it. He made his choice very clear. To tell him your feelings are hurt would make the situation worse. Because honestly, once you tell him that, what do you want him to do?? He'll only end up feeling weird and probably a little guilty. Just leave it alone and move on.

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Neither of those choices. At least he told you before things got serious. Being bitchy won't change his feelings and will make you look immature. You were only "talking" and not dating so there's no reason to share those feelings. Move on, find someone else.

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Respect this guys feelings. Tell him that it's hurt you but leave it at that. He won't even want to be your friend if you get bitchy and immature.

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You should be honest and handle your feelings like an adult. Maybe he doesn't know he hurt your feelings. Men are not mind readers.

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I went through the same thing. I told him I that I like him and wanted to know why all of a sudden he just wanted to be friends. He said it was a bad time cause he's so busy now and he gets crabby so I said ok we will just talk till things mellow out and they slowly are

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At least you can get some closure with this I think it was pretty good of him to be straight forward. I talked to a guy for almost a year and we had feelings for each other and one day he just stopped talking to me... no explanation... now you think of it like you're getting people out of your life who don't deserve to be there...

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I meant to vote bitchy although it's not bitchy to cut ties. I just stop dealing with them right there. I don't stay friends with people I had feelings for that complicates things.

When a guy hurts you should you be

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