Question for ladies with good men/partners

Where did you find them? No really my guy was good and sweet that was when we first got together now all he does is go to work 4 days a week and play video games all the time we have cats and I ask him to clean up after them I will clean everything else and yet he never does I feel lonely but he makes me mad all the time so I never want to be around him idk what I'm doing wrong?! I know I shouldn't complain because he's been here unlike my daughters dad just saying idk anymore.