So, I was SUPPOSED to have a baby shower hosted by my coworkers this Saturday. I have been at this job for 3 years & recently transferred departments (from postpartum to L&D-still work in the same hospital) & was told before I transferred that they would host a baby shower for me since I, not only had been there for 3 years, but was there for the majority of my pregnancy (currently 35 weeks with my first baby). I just found out yesterday that people have purposely refused to participate and therefore the shower is canceled. I'm hurt/pissed/disappointed. I'm annoyed that I've been employed there for 3 years and have participated in he majority of the parties they have had (baby showers & wedding showers, which at some points was a STRETCH for me financially because I was only working part-time & in school full-time). And I'm even more annoyed that the girl that's been there for about a year, who is a bitch to everyone, got a shower, & people can't come together and host one for me. I'm more so bothered because they want to act all excited and involved in my pregnancy, saying things like, "I hope I can be your nurse when you come in" & "I can't wait to meet Baby Brown!", but it just feels like the reality is, they don't really care.