This is my third pregnancy. I had a very small diaper shower (sprinkle) with my second baby. I was having my second son. I was definitely ok with that. It was something to celebrate. This pregnancy I'm having twins. I'm having a boy and a girl, first girl for me!  26 weeks along and no shower :( I know it's not necessary but I've been soooo bummed that my sisters nor my mom have planned one yet, & they had acted like they were going to.  I had gotten rid of all baby stuff after I had my two boys due to a misdiagnosis. And have tried to slowly get small things for the babies but I don't feel ready at all. They are delivering by c section no later than 38 weeks due to my health and surgery last year. Just stressed :/ and need solidarity lol . And need to kick myself into high gear instead of waiting for one or expecting anything of anyone else.