Fertile window, husband less horny ?

Urgh. Of course the one time of the month when it's pretty important that we BD, he suddenly wants to be "wooed" and such , when normally he wants to do it all the time. I haven't talked about my fertile window and stuff because he doesn't want to know all the specifics , but damn. It's like the more "aggressive" I am sexually, the more I have to work for it ? Weird, and discouraging . Then when I'm not ovulating and not having super high sex drive, he can't take his hands off me. I know he really wants to have a baby and start our family . So I'm just confused and irritated.