We are a couple dealing with so much right now and I'm being so mean to my husband! How do you ladies keep your relationships strong through this? I feel miserable sometimes and totally take it out on him..and then I feel more miserable! Infertility is making me a bad wife/friend and I want to be better. I think I even hold him somewhat responsible for our problem sometimes and that feeling is so wrong for me to have. It could just as easily be me having the fertility problem. It seems like infertility puts so many strong and ugly feelings in your heart that you have to reason your way out of. I don't want to be ugly. Any words of wisdom?