Need advice.

So when I was little at age 3, I fell broke my nose and got stitches. I'm 21 and in 2007, 2010, and 2013 I had to have surgery to reconstruct my nose (not plastic surgery) more of to straighten it out. And now I'm going tomorrow because I guess I've had fluid in my ears (assuming from my sinuses) and I can barely breath in my nose. I also can't get pregnant without fertility, have PCOS, depression, anxiety, panic disorder, thyroid, pre diabetic, ADHD, insomnia, ashmua. To be honest I've had 6 surgeries in the past 8-10 years. Possible 2 or more surgeries in the next couple years. I don't know how my husband deals with all this. It's overwhelming going to 7 different doctors a year. And even 3 different ones a month. It's worth it to keep my health under control but I get so nervous all the time and stressed I don't know what to do. Advice on how to cope with everything?