Being big and having sex ?

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I am a plus size girl and I'm a Virgin. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half now and we have been taking about having sex. But I'm scared about a couple thing. I'm scared about how to have sex while being big is it different would he even enjoy it and also since I'm big I have discoloration in between my legs and neck and armpits and the doctors say it's not bad it's just I'm big and skin rubs together but I've never told a guy about it and I'm afraid of how he would act about it and if he would still like me. Is there any advice on what I should do to ?

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Girl you are beautifullllllllllll! Don't let that stop you☺️☺️☺️

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Firstly , let me start by saying how gorgeous you are ! Secondly , you are not "big" ! Frankly I don't think there's anything wrong with your weight ! I used to be about 270lb and trust me , that much cushion does not look good on a 5"1 frame ! Even then I didn't let it stop me from loving myself and giving others the opportunity to love me too ! If you're ready to lose your virginity to your long time BF , go ahead ! Use protection , be safe , and enjoy yourself !

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If he loves ya he won't care :) sex is a beautiful thing and I'm sure he would be glad to have it with you 💙

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I'm plus size and I had the same worries before sleeping with my SO plus a ton of others, my fat parts, my wobbly bits, the fact that my boobs aren't perky, despite the fact that I knew he loved me, I really got myself worked up about it all. But in the end I took his hand and we went to bed and losing it with him was the best decision I ever made. If he's been with you for so long then he's going to understand your insecurities and he's going to show you that they're misplaced because he loves you as you are and he's going to be focussed on making you both feel loved and beautiful and special.

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The one thing you need to know when you're going into this, is that he is going to be just as self conscious as you. No one is perfect. We all have things about ourself that we don't want others to see. If he loves YOU, then he is going to love every thing that comes in the package. It doesn't matter what size you are. Be confident and you'll kill it.

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I'm the same and if he loves you, he wouldn't care. You are lovely and don't try and change.😊

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Honestly, I was bigger than you and my first bf (ex) was a lean guy like 6ft 185lbs of muscle. He didn't care about any of that stuff I even did cowgirl. I would suggest if he's bigger too stretch especially if he's smaller too it'll be more comfortable and pleasurable in the long run for different positions you may have to try to get the perfect fit. I also wouldn't suggest doggie style as a first time. I know for me sometimes it's too sensitive & almost a hurts. Everybody is different you just have to find out what works and always keep communication open. Honestly, you are very beautiful  & have nothing to be self conscious about. He'll love every inch of you so no worries.

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Your s/o should love every single part of you. If he doesn't he isn't worth your time.
Since you seem happy with yours, I'm gonna assume he does. He loves you and wants to have sex with you because you're beautiful and sexy. 
We notice our flaws a lot more than other people do. Especially when it's a guys and he's seeing you naked :p 
Guys don't care about little things like that. He's gonna be more than happy to see you without any clothes on.
Be confident! Confidence is a major turn on and you have no reason not to be confident. You're hot! 
Your first time is a beautiful thing. All that's gonna matter is that you love eachother. Don't worry :)

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Girl I'm 302 pounds and I was scared too when I lost mine. But I'm a lesbian so I was really scared she would compare my body to hers or something. My current girlfriend who I've been with for 9 months (2nd person I've done it with) never body shames me and never says anything bad about us having sex. She loves having sex with me and I'm usually on top. We even shower together sometimes and we cuddle naked after sex sometimes. Don't let your size affect your sex life. I have irritation bumps in between my thighs from being big and my legs rubbing together. If he's right for you, he will accept you and your body exactly the way it is.

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I'm also a bigger girl and I've always been insecure about the darker inner thighs, but my boyfriend doesn't even care. I know it's super scary and it's something we're insecure and scared that our boyfriends might think it's weird, but honestly he won't care. My boyfriend and i have a healthy sexual relationship and we both love it. Even though I'm bigger than my boyfriend, it's like he doesn't even notice. He doesn't care about my size because he loves me how I am. And if your man loves you, he won't care either girl. ❤️

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