Can you lose your virginity twice?

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Hold on, I know that seems like a stupid question but hear me out!

I had sex with my ex boyfriend but I never bled or tore or anything. I just figured I broke it on my own because I'm active and I know that happens sometimes. BUT THEN, I started dating someone new and we recently had sex and he broke my hymen. He is bigger than my ex. I'm just wondering if that has happened to anyone else or if there are any other explanation to it.

Thanks!

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Instead of using the word "virginity", I use the term "making your sexual debut" because it sounds less degrading😉 Lets get real here, ladies, unless you are a bottle of Olive Oil, "virginity" does not determine your quality. And no, dear, you can't make your sexual debut twice.

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Your virginity has nothing to do with your physical body. As soon as you have intercourse you've lost your virginity.

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Just so you know! Your hymen is not supposed to tear or bleed or pop or ANYTHING like that! If it did it probably meant that sexual interaction was very painful! And it never should be!

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Virginity is a social construct. 
That means when you have sex for the first time you don't lose anything. It just means you've had sex before. Your hymen is not connected to your virginity.

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You don't actually break your hymen. You really just stretch it when you have sexual intercourse. If you go a long period of time without being sexually active, it is possible for it to stretch back to its original position, so you can bleed again.

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You don't break your hymen! It stretches and moves out of the way--usually--during intercourse! If you bled it may just mean the penetration was too fast, rough, etc. Try lube and going slow :))

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That happened to me. The first time I had sex I didn't bleed the second time I bled A LOT! and the third time I bled a little. Then I didn't anymore after that

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Oh my god the same exact thing happened to me I feel so much better that it's not just me

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once you have sex then you lose your virginity. only once

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You already lost your virginity. But it's not surprising that you bled if the new guy is bigger. It just means that he broke your hymen.

Can you lose your virginity twice?

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